Solo: Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own
Solo: Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own by Peter McGraw
Pros
- Perfect for relationship anarchists and those questioning traditional structures
- Science-backed approach to solo living and relationship design
- Not specific to nonmonogamy, with an inclusive framework that validates all relationship choices
Cons
- Focus on solo living might not resonate with hierarchy-oriented poly couples
Refreshing Perspectives
For those navigating the complex waters of ethical non-monogamy and relationship anarchy, Peter McGraw's "Solo" arrives as a refreshing validation of choosing your own adventure. Whether you're solo by choice, exploring multiple connections, or somewhere in between, this groundbreaking book speaks to anyone who's ever questioned the relationship escalator. The author also supports a vibrant community of individuals living Solo.
Not a book about CNM
McGraw introduces us to the fascinating spectrum of Solo living - from the "Just Mays" who remain open to romantic connections while prioritizing self-fulfillment, to the "No Ways" who consciously choose an unpartnered life, and the innovative "New Ways" who are actively redesigning relationship paradigms.
Aimed at a wide audience including those newly exploring life solo, this book isn't specifically targeted to a Consensually Non-Monogamous reader. However, this framework resonates particularly well with the poly community, where challenging traditional relationship structures is already second nature.
Dismantling Stigma
Drawing from behavioral economics and his personal journey as a lifelong bachelor, McGraw dismantles the stigma around solo living while providing practical insights for creating rich, meaningful connections - whether with multiple partners or none at all.
This isn't just another self-help book; it's a manifesto for those who dare to write their own relationship rules and refuse to let society's expectations define their happiness.
