More: A Memoir of an Open Marriage
More: A Memoir of Open Marriage
Pros
- Raw, honest portrayal of the ups and downs of opening up
- Relatable exploration of common poly challenges and joys
- Perfect balance of steamy encounters and emotional depth
Cons
- Despite mainstream reviews, and widespread popularity, it focuses more on the challenges, rather than the joys of opening a relationship.
- Told from the perspective of someone originally reluctant to open their marriage, as opposed to someone consenting enthusiastically.
One Woman's Story
In this captivating memoir that made waves on the NYT lists when it debued in 2024, Molly Roden Winter takes us on an intimate journey through the complexities of opening up her marriage.
With the kind of vulnerability that'll resonate with anyone who's ever questioned relationship escalators "More: A Memoir of an Open Marriage" delivers exactly what its title promises – and then some.
The Good, the Bad & the Ugly
From navigating the delicate balance of being a mother and a sexual being to processing the mind-blowing revelation of her own parents' open marriage, Winter's story touches on all the key aspects of consensual non-monogamy: establishing boundaries (and sometimes breaking them), managing New Relationship Energy, and dealing with the ever-present companion of jealousy. Her adventures through New York City's dating scene, complete with hotel rendezvous and passionate flings, offer both titillation and deep insights into the nature of desire.
Going From Open to Polyam
What sets this memoir apart is its unflinching honesty about the challenges of maintaining a primary partnership while exploring connections with others. Winter and her husband Stewart's journey through their agreements – from "don't fall in love" to the inevitable breaking of that cardinal rule – will feel familiar to the world of consensual non-monogamy. Their story proves that sometimes the most meaningful relationships are the ones that challenge our preconceptions about love.
